Of Dad's I Have Helped To break the cycle
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“As I look back on the growth I’ve experienced in 9 months I am forever grateful for where I am today. My marriage is the best it’s ever been, my wife wants to date me again and she looks at me with admiration that was once lost. She appreciates the man I am rather than loathing the boy I was. "
Things I was struggling with before we met…
February 24th 2021 was the day I met Ben Killoy. Up to this point in life I was struggling to make any meaningful change. I was what some refer to as a content zombie failing to take action. I lost passion for life, I was angry and my wife had given up hope for a happy marriage. To be truthful, I had too.
What things did we implement?…
Ben helped me implement: Ownership, Accountability and Action.
Ben helped me achieve these 3 things through first helping me realize everything I needed was within my reach and that power to change lived inside me. Ben helped me gain a deeper reflection into my past behaviours that no one else has been able to provide. I spent years stuck acting like a child and not taking responsibility for my situation. I was failing to tell the man in the mirror to grow the fuck up. Ben saw past my facade that I put up and called me to action and to emerge as a leader for my family. Ben helped me make mends with my past and showed me how to acknowledge it so that it no longer held power over me. Ben helped me identify my part in the pattern of my relationships and own where I failed to show up or accept responsibility. Most importantly Ben has inspired me to take control of my life which has inspired action in all areas of my life and helped me find my passion for life again.
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"Ben has helped me grasp the bigger picture and has helped guide me through one of the most difficult times in my life in the beginning he said Sometimes in life we need a GPS, and Ben has been exactly that for me he’s honest with a heart of gold his grandma raised him right, and it shows in the way he sees and understands me as a man and as a human."
When I met Be I was at a place I felt lost like I was frantically searching for a way to organize my thoughts and keep up with work and be an effective parent while I was struggling with accepting where I was in life at that moment.
I had just stepped into this idea of what my best self was supposed to look like and I felt like I had answers but in reality, I couldn’t handle my emotions and stress well and still manage to speak in a manner that would allow my voice to be heard. And when he messaged me and then asked if he could call me I said yes I wanted help and Ben threw me a lifeline like he knew I needed help and I swear even though I’m not a veteran the time to come home program was made for me. I had no clue what to expect at first I didn’t know what I was going to do with this guy I met on Facebook and how I would react to a stranger telling me about myself.
I took a chance and looked at the sky then agreed to take this opportunity for growth and take it seriously.
Ben has helped me grasp the bigger picture and has helped guide me through one of the most difficult times in my life in the beginning he said Sometimes in life we need a GPS, and Ben has been exactly that for me he’s honest with a heart of gold his grandma raised him right, and it shows in the way he sees and understands me as a man and as a human.
If you ever feel like maybe you could do better the answer is you can but you have to choose too, and learning to get through the obstacle instead of around it is hard but it’s been the most worth it lesson I have learned sense the beginning of all this. I appreciate Ben, I appreciate this program. And if it wasn’t for this program I would have found the ditch a few more times I’m sure of it. So thank you Ben for what you are doing, if you don’t know it already your making a difference in this world and in my life you made a world of a difference
"If you are unsure of taking action to hire Ben then you’re right where I was 9 months ago. Your biggest obstacle to success is You! Ben will help you realize this faster than any self-help book ever could. We don’t have all the skills to figure things out on our own and we don’t need to. Ben will help you see your life in ways others can’t. Get to work on what’s holding you back, start leading your family and get to work!"
